uh-oh, look at you actually being interested in who’s behind the writing. Some people just come to read then they pack their things and leave. I mean, I actually have a post that tells a little about me called The Owner, but I didn’t know how to make it a page then so here’s a more official one.

I was a blogger before I put it in my bio on Twitter or introduced my blog on Instagram; I was a writer before I let the world know. Words have always brought me peace and made the most complicated things simple. Any word. Curse words. “poetic” words. Simple words. Long words. Any and every word becomes a cure when brought to life. Freshman year at Howard University, all I wanted to do was write. No math classes, no science classes. Just put me in a class that would give me the tools to get my words heard or read. But someone told me writing was a dying career and I wouldn’t make any money…so I declared psychology as my major. At first I considered that one of my regrets but…

Little did I know, psychology is actually made for writers with a writer’s mind: Made for those that crave deep conversations. Made for those that are bored with the things that are only on the surface. Made for those that seek to understand every detail. Made for those that live in their heads 85% of the time. Made for those that plan to save the world…one word at a time.

I’m not a traditional blogger. I’m not scared to be a human that share real feelings towards real situations. I’m not scared to drop F-bombs. Wait. Are we really scared to say fuck? Just fucking say the shit if it gets your point across. I’m not scared to speak about more than fashion and music because there’s more to life than Chanel and Drake. I’m not scared to be myself completely. My genuine self. My real self.

Life In A Pile is a real blog and I mean that in every way. Don’t expect anything less than real topics with real feelings….but whenever I’m not feeling too deep that day or a situation hasn’t moved me, you can also expect a little fashion, music, photography, poetry etc. to enjoy in the meantime.


As always: Thank you & I hope you will always continue to read.


The Blogger.

11 Comment

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    September 8, 2014 at 3:54 pm

    I love YOU

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      June 12, 2015 at 1:32 am

      I love u too!

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    January 19, 2015 at 2:52 pm

    Your posts are amazing and so relatable.Never stop being the real and amazing person that you are,it reflects through your writing ♥

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      June 12, 2015 at 1:33 am

      I won’t, I promise! Thanks for reading.

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    West African Beauty
    April 4, 2015 at 7:16 am

    I’m literally obsessed. I’ve been binge reading like crazy

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      June 12, 2015 at 1:35 am

      Omg, that makes me so happy! lol I try to be as transparent as possible.

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    Scarlett Jaye
    December 12, 2015 at 5:14 pm

    Can I just say that I’m already in love with your blog? I’ve been searching for so long for writers similar to myself. Honestly, (and no offense to anyone) I’m sick of only seeing fashion and beauty gurus. I need a blogger with some substance and you have that! I’m going to continue to read your blog and definitely subscribe. You have the voice that’s raw and unapologetic for her opinions! That’s amazing. In the meantime, check out my blog “Sandpaper Kisses, Papercut Bliss”. I think you may enjoy it. Thanks.


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    December 18, 2015 at 9:36 pm

    So, I’m not really a twitter person. I’ve had an account for years, just never used it. BUT, this young lady right here, whom I am so very proud to call my niece, has lured me back here (and she don’t even know it!). I love you so much, your words are encouraging, words that make me stop and think, “dang, she is so right, I can learn a lot from this young lady”. Continue to be a blessing, you never know how your words may bless a person! I just can’t stop saying I love you very much!

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    February 10, 2016 at 1:35 pm


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    Broderick Russell Jr.
    March 31, 2016 at 12:29 am

    Awesome, I look forward to reading!

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    February 22, 2017 at 1:24 pm

    That bio is so me! A writer who declared psychology as a major. WOW! Already hooked.

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